“Thank you for your service.”
Those are five words we often say to veterans, especially as Veterans Day approaches. And they are important words. But I’ve been wondering whether we sometimes say them without stopping to consider everything behind them.
Over the years, I’ve known many people who have served in our military. My college roommate served, as did my father-in-law, several cousins, and our children’s bonus mom, who served in the Marines. And during my 30 years of ministry, I’ve had the privilege of getting to know veterans in the congregations I’ve served. I’ve listened to their stories, heard about their experiences, and learned a little about the sacrifices they and their families have made.
Some speak proudly about their years of service. Others carry memories that are difficult to talk about. I’ve known Vietnam veterans who still remember what it felt like to return home and not be welcomed because of the anger and protests surrounding the war. I’ve also spent time with veterans experiencing homelessness, whose struggles remind me that not everyone receives the care and support they need. At the same time, I know many veterans who have received good care through the VA, even when getting that care requires time, travel, and persistence.
Their experiences are different, and I don’t want to pretend otherwise.
But every one of them deserves our respect and gratitude.
As Christians, we believe that love is more than something we say. In 1 John 3:18, we’re reminded to love not just with words, but through our actions.
I think that applies to gratitude, too.
As Veterans Day approaches next Wednesday, November 11, I hope you’ll find a way to honor someone who has served. There are several opportunities in our community, including the Plano Flags of Honor display and Carrollton’s Veterans Day celebration. There are parades, a car show, and other activities throughout the area. I encourage you to look at what’s happening and consider participating.
You might also pause for a moment of silence at 11:11 a.m. on November 11, whether you’re at home, at work, or here at the church.
And perhaps the most meaningful thing you could do is reach out to a veteran you know. Give them a call. Invite them to lunch. Ask about their experiences if they’re comfortable sharing, and take the time to listen.
I hope we will always say, “Thank you for your service.”
But I also hope those words lead us to something more. I hope they lead us to listen, care, advocate when needed, and make sure those who have served know they haven’t been forgotten.
Because gratitude is more than something we say. It’s something we live.
With Gratitude,
Rev. Rodney Whitfield
Senior Pastor
Aldersgate UMC
P.S. Honoring Our Veterans
This Sunday, November 8, we will take time during worship to recognize and thank the veterans in our congregation for their service.
As Veterans Day approaches, I encourage you to explore these local opportunities to honor and celebrate those who have served:
Plano Flags of Honor: A tribute to our veterans, with activities and opportunities for the whole family. - Explore Plano Flags of Honor
Carrollton Veterans Day Celebration: Wednesday, November 11, featuring a free lunch and concert for veterans and their guests. - View Carrollton’s Veterans Day Events